by Laura Beth

Getting Personal #36: The 44 For Bill Movement

Dr. B. holds a special place in my heart. I only took one class with him during my time at Longwood. Sadly, he passed away at the age of 44 on September 9, 2012.

Every year, on September 9th, the #44forBill movement takes hold. The idea is to spread random acts of kindness throughout our communities, neighborhoods, and even our world.

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From the 44 For Bill event page on Facebook:

“We are honoring Bill Stuart’s life by performing random acts of kindness to help others. September 9, 2016. Please join us.

Random acts of kindness are great because they can be anything, big or small, anonymous or credited, for someone you know or a stranger … the possibilities are endless.”

For me, I was at a loss this year. I wasn’t sure what to do for 2016.

In the past few years, this is a few of the things I’ve done on September 9th:

Paid it forward in the Starbucks drive-thru
Handed out individual candies with little notes of love and encouragement to strangers during the day
Written notes of encouragement to my co-workers and others in my office
Supported local school supply drives
Donated to a local diaper bank

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So, in frustration and desperation, I turned to the good old Internet.

I was flooded with ideas – Literal information overload.

I really enjoyed writing notes of love and encouragement in the past, so I focused on that idea.

Here’s what I found:

Wonderful Mail – Write uplifting notes to strangers and mail them to people in the phone book.
Give A Stranger A Gift – Find a public wish list on Amazon.com and send a gift to a stranger.
Love For The Elderly – Founded by an amazing 13-year-old, this nonprofit sends love, gifts, and sunshine to seniors and the elderly.
Operation Gratitude – Writing letters and cards to our troops and soldiers.
22 Ways to Support Our Troops – Brad Aronson created this amazing list to help our troops!

After mulling my research, I decided to give to two organizations.

Throughout the day today:

I planned out 22 “Letters of Love” for Love For The Elderly
I planned out 22 letters for Operation Gratitude
I wrote 12 out of 44 letters in a span of a few hours tonight – My hand gave out!

This was the best $10.00 I ever spent – Markers and colorful paper!

The six of 22 letters for Operation Gratitude.

The six of 22 letters for Love for the Elderly.

I’m so excited about this!

As soon as the rest of the letters are finished, I’ll be sending these to their destinations!

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

09.08.16

by Laura Beth

Writing Prompt #14: “30 Day Writing Challenge” (Day 8)

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Here’s the list!

List 10 things that make you happy
Write something that someone told you about yourself that you never forgot
What are your top 3 pet peeves
Write about someone who inspires you
List 5 places you want to visit
5 wins to your heart
List 10 songs you’re loving right now
Something you struggle with
Post some words of wisdom that speak to you
Write about something for which you feel strongly
Something you always think “what if…” about
Write about 5 blessings in your life
What are you excited about
Post your favorite movies that you never get tired of watching
Bullet-point your whole day
Something that you miss
Post about your zodiac sign, and whether or not it fits you
Post 30 facts about yourself
Discuss your first love
Post about three celebrity crushes
What are 3 lessons you want your children to learn from you
Put your music on shuffle and post the first 10 songs
A letter to someone, anyone
What about a lesson you’ve learned the hard way
Think of any word. Search it on Google images. Write something inspired by the 11th image
Write about an area in your life you’d like to improve
Conversely, write about something that’s kicking ass right now
Post 5 things that make you laugh-out-loud
What are your goals for the next 30 days
Your highs and lows for the month

Something you struggle with

I struggle with taking things personally, and caring too much. I’ve gotten better, as the years have passed. But, I take almost everything that’s said to me to heart, whether good or bad. I care immensely about the people in my life, and I know it’s important to do so. However, I know both of these things are major contributors to my anxiety.

I’ve always put others before myself. That’s the way I was raised. But, at the same time, until a few short years ago, I had no idea that I was essentially neglecting myself and my well-being.

The word “No” is a much bigger part of my vocabulary now. I don’t feel nearly as guilty as I used to, when I say no to things. If I’m pondering a decision that has a yes or no response, I always try to ask myself if my response will increase my anxiety. That usually helps simplify my answer.

I still take things personally, and I care way too much. But, that’s part of who I am. I’m just learning ways to control them, and how to always consider myself as part of the overall equation.

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

09.07.16

by Laura Beth

Commentary #40: Thoughts on “Girl Meets World”

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I didn’t watch Boy Meets World growing up, but I watched a good chunk of it in syndication in college (Yay, ABC Family!)

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Then, Disney announced that they were producing a sequel – Girl Meets World.

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Well, it’s safe to say that I’m hooked.

We’ve already blown through the first two seasons on Netflix! I can’t wait until they get a hold of season 3!!

I love that Disney basically picked up right where Boy Meets World left off, and then proceeded to update it for today’s kids and parents.

At the same time, it’s a bit surreal to think that the kids who watched Boy Meets World are now adults and probably have kids of their own now, just like the characters Cory, Topanga, Eric, and Shawn.

COREY FOGELMANIS, PEYTON MEYER, SABRINA CARPENTER, ROWAN BLANCHARD, BEN SAVAGE, AUGUST MATURO, DANIELLE FISHEL

GIRL MEETS WORLD – Disney Channel’s “Girl Meets World” stars Corey Fogelmanis as Farkle Minkus, Peyton Meyer as Lucas Friar, Sabrina Carpenter as Maya Hart, Rowan Blanchard as Riley Matthews, Ben Savage as Cory Matthews, August Maturo as Auggie Matthews and Danielle Fishel as Topanga Matthews. (Disney Channel/Edward Herrera) Image Credit: thewrap.com

I love that the show is mostly centered around the kids – Just like Boy Meets World was, back in the day. It certainly involves the adult characters, but the show is a decent role model for today’s kids. For me, I’ve seen many lessons about independence, friendship, moving, responsibility, choices, talent, and growing up, among other things.

It shows the struggles of middle school, mixed in with struggles of the adult world – Teaching, funding, helping others, making difficult decisions, supporting your family.

Now that I’m on pins and needles waiting for season 3, I want to go back and revisit Boy Meets World as a whole. There are some awesome flashbacks featured in Girl Meets World, and seeing those little snippets makes me even more nostalgic!

Overall, I think Disney’s done a good job with keeping a lot of the old elements, but also updating them for the new generations. Although it’s clearly designed for a younger audience, as a 28-year-old, I appreciate the show based on the nostalgia factor, the variety of social issues that are covered, and the feel-good atmosphere that surrounds the show as a whole. I’m happy that they’ve included a lot of the characters from the original show, as well as balanced those characters with new, fresh ones.

For me, this is similar to the feelings I felt when Netflix created Fuller House, but this experience is on a slightly different scale. I’m happy that Disney took this idea, knowing that they were taking a big risk with all of the Boy Meets World fans, and ran with it.

From what I’ve seen, it’s been a big success, so far.

What are your thoughts?

Did you watch Boy Meets World?

Have you watched Girl Meets World?

Let me know what you think!

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

09.07.16

by Laura Beth

Writing Prompt #13: “30 Day Writing Challenge” (Day 7)

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Here’s the list!

List 10 things that make you happy
Write something that someone told you about yourself that you never forgot
What are your top 3 pet peeves
Write about someone who inspires you
List 5 places you want to visit
5 wins to your heart
List 10 songs you’re loving right now
Something you struggle with
Post some words of wisdom that speak to you
Write about something for which you feel strongly
Something you always think “what if…” about
Write about 5 blessings in your life
What are you excited about
Post your favorite movies that you never get tired of watching
Bullet-point your whole day
Something that you miss
Post about your zodiac sign, and whether or not it fits you
Post 30 facts about yourself
Discuss your first love
Post about three celebrity crushes
What are 3 lessons you want your children to learn from you
Put your music on shuffle and post the first 10 songs
A letter to someone, anyone
What about a lesson you’ve learned the hard way
Think of any word. Search it on Google images. Write something inspired by the 11th image
Write about an area in your life you’d like to improve
Conversely, write about something that’s kicking ass right now
Post 5 things that make you laugh-out-loud
What are your goals for the next 30 days
Your highs and lows for the month

List 10 songs you’re loving right now

Lips Are Movin by Meghan Trainor
Welcome to New York by Taylor Swift
H.O.L.Y. by Florida Georgia Line
Uptown Funk by Mark Ronson ft. Bruno Mars
NO by Meghan Trainor
Heartbeat by Carrie Underwood
Wildest Dreams by Taylor Swift
Think of You by Chris Young (Duet with Cassadee Pope)
Sugar by Maroon 5
From The Ground Up by Dan + Shay

I had heard good things about Meghan Trainor – I loved “All About That Bass” – But I’m so in love with her now. I want to go see her live now! I usually play one of these two songs every day. “Lips Are Movin” and “NO” are both full of sass, and both of them have some relation to some events that have happened in my life recently. I love her style!

“H.O.L.Y.” is a beautiful song. I wax and wane with Florida Georgia Line, but this one took my heart immediately.

“Uptown Funk” – I can’t stop! It’s so catchy. If I need a pick-me-up, I put this on for a little dance party when I first get to my office and I’m all alone for a few minutes.

“Heartbeat” is another gorgeous song. Carrie overdoes sometimes with her singing, but not this one!

“Think of You”is kind of a sad song, but I love the duet between Chris and Cassadee – So pretty!

“Sugar” – Another song that I can’t get enough of. The music video is basically perfection – Who doesn’t like a special surprise?

Dan + Shay swept me up with “19 You + Me” in 2014, and their new “From The Ground Up” didn’t disappoint – It’s wonderful.

Taylor Swift – She’s my fave. I’ve always loved “Welcome to New York” – But, I fell back in love when it was featured as the opening song for “The Secret Life of Pets,” which is an adorable movie! And “Wildest Dreams” is another beautiful song – The music video is amazing!

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

09.06.16

by Laura Beth

Writing Prompt #12: “30 Day Writing Challenge” (Day 6)

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Here’s the list!

List 10 things that make you happy
Write something that someone told you about yourself that you never forgot
What are your top 3 pet peeves
Write about someone who inspires you
List 5 places you want to visit
5 wins to your heart
List 10 songs you’re loving right now
Something you struggle with
Post some words of wisdom that speak to you
Write about something for which you feel strongly
Something you always think “what if…” about
Write about 5 blessings in your life
What are you excited about
Post your favorite movies that you never get tired of watching
Bullet-point your whole day
Something that you miss
Post about your zodiac sign, and whether or not it fits you
Post 30 facts about yourself
Discuss your first love
Post about three celebrity crushes
What are 3 lessons you want your children to learn from you
Put your music on shuffle and post the first 10 songs
A letter to someone, anyone
What about a lesson you’ve learned the hard way
Think of any word. Search it on Google images. Write something inspired by the 11th image
Write about an area in your life you’d like to improve
Conversely, write about something that’s kicking ass right now
Post 5 things that make you laugh-out-loud
What are your goals for the next 30 days
Your highs and lows for the month

Five ways to win your heart

Without question, Al’s definitely won my heart. Here’s five things (out of a long, long list) that he does or has done that makes me melt and fall more in love with him!

Lots of forehead kisses – They’re immensely comforting to me.
Stroke my hair – This calms me almost instantly. It’s so soothing.
Sing along with me in the car when a good song comes on the radio.
Being an awesome cook, and wanting to cook and try new recipes!
Always finding a way to make me laugh.

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

09.06.16

by Laura Beth

Blog Awards #7: The Entertainer Blogger Award

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Thank you so much to icebreaker694 for nominating me for The Entertainer Blogger Award!

Here’s the post where I was nominated:

The Entertainer Blogger Award 2!

The Rules:

Write a post with the award picture.
Nominate 12 other bloggers who are funny, inspiring, and, most important of all, ENTERTAINING!
Add these rules to the post.
Thank the person who nominated you and leave a link to their blog!
Also, answer these questions down below!

The Questions:

Why did you start a blog in the first place?

I was required to, as part of my Computer-Mediated Communication class in college. I wanted to go farther after the class ended, so Hot Shot Headlines was born after several rounds of trial and error. I’m sad that Dr. B. is no longer with us, but he left a lasting legacy on Longwood’s campus and community, and the world around him.

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What is your favorite book?

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The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald.

I was required to read it in high school, but I fell in love. I re-read this book every single year. I love the time period. The characters are intriguing. There’s an air of mystery. When I first read it, I was sad when it ended, hungry for more.

Afterward, I was inspired to read more of Fitzgerald’s works, and I did at least one research paper on his other books. The time period – The Jazz Age – is almost intoxicating. Reading the stories of Americans in Paris and other expatriates made me want to travel all of Europe and explore their world.

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What do you dislike the most?

I absolutely loathe spelling and grammatical errors. I’m always checking and double-checking any type of written communication I make before I let it go. I also spell out every word in my text messages!

Other than that, I’m not much of a hater – Unless you’re a distracted driver, an incredibly lazy or unmotivated person, or someone who is a complete asshole to me, my family, or friends. You will face my wrath if you mess with my family or close friends, and trust me, it’s not a pretty picture.

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What is your favorite food item from the mall?

It’s a tie – Orange chicken with fried rice, and Auntie Anne’s pretzels! There’s a great Chinese place in the local mall that makes some of the best orange chicken and fried rice. And you can’t go wrong with Auntie Anne’s – I love their Garlic Parmesan pretzels with the cheese dip!

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What is your favorite past time?

Another tie – Reading and writing. I love books, and as soon as I finish one and write a short review for the blog, I usually feel the need / itch to pick up another one to start within 24 hours.

When I’m not reading, you’ll usually find me working on the blog, or dreaming up a story idea in one of my notebooks, on a legal pad, or on my laptop. I’ve been writing stories down for well over 18 years now, and I always have a working pen and notebook / pad of paper with me at all times.

I Tag:

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

09.05.16

by Laura Beth

Writing Prompt #11: “30 Day Writing Challenge” (Day 5)

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Here’s the list!

List 10 things that make you happy
Write something that someone told you about yourself that you never forgot
What are your top 3 pet peeves
Write about someone who inspires you
List 5 places you want to visit
5 wins to your heart
List 10 songs you’re loving right now
Something you struggle with
Post some words of wisdom that speak to you
Write about something for which you feel strongly
Something you always think “what if…” about
Write about 5 blessings in your life
What are you excited about
Post your favorite movies that you never get tired of watching
Bullet-point your whole day
Something that you miss
Post about your zodiac sign, and whether or not it fits you
Post 30 facts about yourself
Discuss your first love
Post about three celebrity crushes
What are 3 lessons you want your children to learn from you
Put your music on shuffle and post the first 10 songs
A letter to someone, anyone
What about a lesson you’ve learned the hard way
Think of any word. Search it on Google images. Write something inspired by the 11th image
Write about an area in your life you’d like to improve
Conversely, write about something that’s kicking ass right now
Post 5 things that make you laugh-out-loud
What are your goals for the next 30 days
Your highs and lows for the month

List 5 places you want to visit

Green Bay, Wisconsin

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I’ve always wanted to see my Packers play a home game at Lambeau Field – Just not in a blizzard!

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Hawaii

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Ever since my parents went to Hawaii for a week in the summer of 2009, I’ve wanted to go! There are so many things I want to do there: Attempt to surf at Waikiki Beach, climb Diamond Head, go to Pearl Harbor, see where Jurassic Park was filmed, and more!

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Italy

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Just search “Italy” in Google Images and you’re instantly flooded with amazing sights! I want to visit Venice, Rome, Pompeii, Naples, Florence, and all the famous monuments. I have several friends who have honeymooned in Europe, including Italy, and I’ve always been jealous of their photos!

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San Francisco, California

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I want to see all the tourist spots: The Golden Gate Bridge, Lombard Street, the Full House house, Chinatown, and more!

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Alaska

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Ever since I was 10, I’ve wanted to go on an Alaskan cruise! The scenery up there is absolutely breath-taking!

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

09.04.16

by Laura Beth

Writing Prompt #10: “30 Day Writing Challenge” (Day 4)

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Here’s the list!

List 10 things that make you happy
Write something that someone told you about yourself that you never forgot
What are your top 3 pet peeves
Write about someone who inspires you
List 5 places you want to visit
5 wins to your heart
List 10 songs you’re loving right now
Something you struggle with
Post some words of wisdom that speak to you
Write about something for which you feel strongly
Something you always think “what if…” about
Write about 5 blessings in your life
What are you excited about
Post your favorite movies that you never get tired of watching
Bullet-point your whole day
Something that you miss
Post about your zodiac sign, and whether or not it fits you
Post 30 facts about yourself
Discuss your first love
Post about three celebrity crushes
What are 3 lessons you want your children to learn from you
Put your music on shuffle and post the first 10 songs
A letter to someone, anyone
What about a lesson you’ve learned the hard way
Think of any word. Search it on Google images. Write something inspired by the 11th image
Write about an area in your life you’d like to improve
Conversely, write about something that’s kicking ass right now
Post 5 things that make you laugh-out-loud
What are your goals for the next 30 days
Your highs and lows for the month

Write about someone who inspires you

My Grandma Grace was my mom’s mom. I’ll admit, she was my favorite grandparent. I was fortunate enough to have all four of my grandparents until the age of 20, which is exceedingly rare among my age group.

Born in 1917, she survived the Great Depression in Ripley, West Virginia. Her mother was Laura Bethany Powers (My namesake), and Grandma’s childhood was shaped by farming, gardening, cooking, grit, perseverance, and determination. She went to college in Ohio and earned a degree in Social Work.

She married my Grandpa Madan in June 1944, just before D-Day. My Grandpa was in the Army, and they married on the Army base right before he left for Europe.

After the war ended, she struggled to get pregnant. She ended taking DES in the belief that it would prevent miscarriages and other complications. At the beginning of the fifties, my Uncle Richard was born first, and then my mom came along two years later.

My head is full of stories of their adventures in Kendall, Florida. She was a devoted wife and mother while my grandpa owned furniture stores and other businesses. They had many animals, and traveled extensively. They were faithful Christians, volunteers, and wonderful friends to almost everyone.

Because Grandma took DES, my mom had immense trouble having children. My mom endured three miscarriages and other medical issues before I was born prematurely. I ended up being the only grandchild. Grandma was 71 when I born, but was an amazing grandmother from the very start.

She taught me so many things:

Cooking – I can almost taste her leg of lamb every Easter.
Keeping a beautiful house – The two houses they owned in Coral Gables were always immaculately decorated!
A love of traveling – She and Grandpa cruised all over the world!
Patience
A love of reading, newspapers, libraries, and bookstores.
Sets of dishes / china are practical, but also collectible.
How to play Scrabble and complete the hardest crossword puzzles.
Frozen Oreos are the best Oreos.
Keeping the faith.
Calling family and friends on the phone on a regular basis.
Getting old with grace, peace, and acceptance.

Grandpa, the first of my grandparents to leave this world, passed away on August 25, 2008. Although sad, Grandma Grace was incredibly strong and forgiving. She endured multiple estate sales, and the eventual sale of the home they shared for nearly 10 years on Palmarito Street. After the house sold, she moved in with my Uncle Richard, who only lives a few miles away in Miami.

She passed away peacefully on July 31, 2013, at the age of 96.

Next July marks what would have been her 100th birthday.

I want to do something special then.

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

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