Getting Personal #26: “Guest Post by Laura Beth @HotShotHeadlines: Raising Awareness About Domestic Violence” (Reblogged)

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Today, this blog post is a HUGE step for me.

For the first time, ever, I’m sharing my entire story — My entire experience from 2006 through 2010. Until now, I’ve mentioned pieces of it, here and there, on this blog. This took a lot of courage. It took me multiple drafts of an email, several days of reviewing and re-reading, feeling knots in my stomach and tears in my eyes.

I’ve wanted to do this for almost six years now, but something kept telling me to wait, to be patient, that the right venue or opportunity would come along.

Thanks to Carla and her amazing blog, she’s made it her mission to share those stories that need to be read / heard. Please check out her blog – The Melodramatic Confessions of Carla Louise. She balances tough, scorching topics – Feminism, rape culture, domestic violence, abuse, capital punishment – with awesome challenges about TV shows and music.

Carla has a disclaimer at the beginning of her post, but I’ll share a version of my own:

Disclaimer: This post contains graphic depictions of abuse, violence, sex, alcohol, and a few other difficult topics.

With that said, I welcome comments or questions. Please feel free to reach out to me, via commenting here, or by the information on my “Contact” page.

Thank you.


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Getting Personal #25: August Goals

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Several bloggers I follow do monthly goal posts, and I’ve always enjoyed reading them. It’s good to put yourself out there, to hold yourself accountable!

When I read Brey’s post this morning, I knew I wanted to start doing my own.


I commented on Brey’s post with my goals, so I’ll share those first:

  1. Build up some cash
  2. Thoroughly enjoy my birthday!
  3. See Star Trek: Beyond, Jason Bourne, and maybe one other movie with my husband
  4. Prepare for the start of my Trial Prep & Discovery class at the end of the month
  5. Finalize our first wedding anniversary getaway for November
  6. Read Harry Potter and The Cursed Child
  7. Keep blogging!

Between writing that comment and starting this post, I came up with a few more:

  1. Paint as much of the house as possible
  2. Hopefully move my furniture!
  3. Find at least five new recipes
  4. Start tracking our monthly expenses via spreadsheet
  5. Check out geekgirlpenpals.com (Thanks, A Girl’s Voyage!)

Here’s the breakdown:

Build up some cash

  • Last month, I got bit by the American Girl bug. I have two dolls – Stephanie and Molly – and I happened to find several American Girl groups on Facebook. Let’s just say I went a little crazy / overboard (Neither doll has made the trek from Mom and Dad’s to our house yet, either). So, in August, I’ve pledged to slow down on the personal spending and try to rebuild some of my cash.

Thoroughly enjoy my birthday!

  • My birthday falls on a Sunday this year – So that’s awesome. I worked on my actual birthday for several years, and I hated it. Finally, I decided that I would take my birthday off from work if it fell during the week, or a Friday or Monday if it fell during the weekend. This year, I’m doing the Monday route, and I’m so excited. The last few years, I’ve treated myself to a movie, solo, one that Al may not want to see. My plan is to go to LUSH at MacArthur Mall and then see a movie there. We’re (Al, me, and my parents) also going to Olive Garden for dinner on Sunday night – Yum!

See Star Trek: Beyond, Jason Bourne, and maybe one other movie with my husband

  • We’re hoping to see Star Trek: Beyond this week. Jason Bourne also looks very good. We are considering seeing Suicide Squad on Thursday night, but it may be later this weekend or next week. I have roughly three weeks before my fall class starts, so I’m very excited for the break!

Prepare for the start of my Trial Prep & Discovery class at the end of the month

  • I have a short break before my Trial Prep & Discovery class starts on August 22nd. It’s another on-campus class in Virginia Beach, but the class is held just once a week, on Tuesday nights. I’m really excited for this one! We get to learn about trials, the discovery process, and how you prepare to go to trial. I need to get my books and make sure everything is squared away long before the 22nd!

Finalize our first wedding anniversary getaway for November

  • Our first wedding anniversary is November 14th. Yeesh, how time flies! Al and I have been discussing where to go and what to do. We’ve been debating back and forth – Do we go away, or do something local? We probably won’t be doing a whole week off of work, but likely a Friday – Tuesday thing, since our anniversary falls on a Monday this year, due to Leap Year.

Read Harry Potter and The Cursed Child

  • As much of a Harry Potter fan as I am, I was very skeptical about The Cursed Child. However, I’m going to bite the bullet and buy it!

Keep blogging!

  • I really enjoyed doing the July TV Show Photo Challenge! I had a lot of fun with it, and I’m so proud of myself that I posted every day for 16 days! Woohoo! I’m taking a break from daily challenges for this month, but I hope to do another one in September. In the meantime, I plan to keep blogging as much as possible – I have at least three books I want to read and review, plus house updates!

Paint as much of the house as possible

  • Al made amazing progress this weekend on the walls by our stairs and upstairs hallway. I was able to help a little, with finishing my final Legal Research project and all. We’re planning to get the paint for the four bedrooms tonight, and just go to town.

Hopefully move my furniture!

  • We haven’t moved much of my furniture because we’ve been painting, and our garages have been pretty full. So that would be nice to accomplish by the end of the month. Then we’ll be fully moved in, and my parents get two bedrooms back!

Find at least five new recipes

  • I want to pull out our new Crock-Pot and go to town, among other things. I have two recipes that I used years ago, but I want to push myself and find five brand-new recipes that will be healthy and tasty!

Start tracking our monthly expenses via spreadsheet

  • We just made our first mortgage payment! Wow. We decided last month to catalog everything in a spreadsheet, so we’ll sit down and start inputting every dollar.

Check out geekgirlpenpals.com

  • Thanks to her Snail Mail post, I want to check out this site immediately. I love writing letters and cards, so I’m excited to look at this site and possibly sign up to get a pen pal!

That’s it for my August goals!

I’m going to make this a regular thing – Do a “Goals” post around the 1st of the month, and then a “Recap” post at the end of the month. I’m excited!

Do you have any for this month?


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Blog Awards #3: The Unique Blogger Award

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Rules:

  • Thank the blogger who nominated you and include a link to their blog.
  • Answer their 3 questions.
  • Include one meme and one quote you really like.
  • Nominate 8-13 bloggers to receive this award.
  • Ask your nominees 3 UNIQUE questions.
  • Add a link to the awards creator: Meg of the meg-nog list blog – Check her out. She’s awesome!

Questions I Was Asked:

1.  What has been a special moment for you so far in 2016?

A: A special moment for me in 2016 was when my husband and I closed on our first house! This has been a dream of ours for well over a year. It felt awesome to finally close the deal and receive the keys!

2.  What is the last show you binge-watched?

A: The last show I binge-watched was Fuller House, courtesy of Netflix. I really enjoyed it!

3.  What advice would you give your younger self?

A: I would tell my younger self the following: (a) Love yourself as much as possible; (b) You are not weak; (c) Slow down, enjoy every minute; (d) Keep your faith close, it will help you along the way.

My Meme and Quote:

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Nominees:

  1. scarsandsilence
  2. Bluebird4UDaily
  3. Deidra Alexander
  4. Adaptation Station – Nicole Morris
  5. coffeeandinsight – Crystal
  6. Curious Queendom – Sharon Yvonne
  7. The Incurable Romantic – Caryn Emme
  8. Opinion Blog Daily

Questions:

  1. What book are you currently reading?
  2. What movie are you currently excited to see?
  3. What’s your favorite memory from your high school or college years?

Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Blog Awards #2: Bloggers Recognition Award

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I don’t have an official credit for this image, but whomever created it, thank you! I love vintage typewriters!!

Wow. I’m so humbled to say that I was nominated for another award. I was nominated for the Bloggers Recognition Award by gettingthroughanxiety. She has an amazing blog – One that I can relate to on a personal level.

Thank you!


The Rules:

  • Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
  • Write a post to show your award.
  • Attach the award to the post.
  • Give a brief story on how your blog started.
  • Give a piece of advice or two to new bloggers.
  • Select 15 other blogs you want to give the award to.
  • Comment on each blog and let them know you nominated them and provide a link to the award post you created.

A Brief Story on How Hot Shot Headlines Started:

This blog started, in part, with Dr. Bill Stuart, affectionately known as Dr. B. I took his Computer-Mediated Communications class at Longwood University in the spring of 2010. One of our assignments was to create a blog, on any topic we wished, and do regular posts throughout the semester. Admittedly, I wasn’t too fond of the class – It felt like I was learning a lot of the same information that I had been taught for the last three years as a Communication Studies, Mass Media major.

Oh, how young and stupid (a.k.a., absolutely wrong) I was.

My blog was called “The Best Entertainment You’ve Never Seen!” and I structured it around the Greenwood Library’s selection of DVDs. I picked movies that I figured most of my classmates and friends had never seen, watched them, and then wrote synopses of them. I started to enjoy the assignment about halfway through the class. Along the way, I realized that I was growing fond of Dr. B. and his teaching methods.

By the end of that semester, I knew I wanted to keep blogging, but start something that was truly my own. It took a couple of tries before I arrived here, but I’m grateful for that process.

Sadly, Dr. B. passed away from a heart attack just a few weeks into the fall semester of 2012. He was just 44 years old. It had been more than a year since I had graduated, but the entire COMMunity was devastated.

I have to give credit to him, for giving that assignment, which opened my eyes to blogging. I realized that blogging was a great platform for my writing, especially if I wanted to become a published novelist at some point.

So, here’s to you, Dr. B. Thank you for inspiring me!

In addition, writing is one of my biggest therapies. I’ve enjoyed writing since the age of 10, and I’m thrilled that I have this platform available to me to do so. When I was diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) last summer, I knew this blog was one of the best medicines for me. It’s been a wonderful outlet.


My Advice to New Bloggers:

  • As others have said, blogging is about writing what’s important to you, the writer. Your blog is a platform for you to express yourself. Listen to your heart.
  • It doesn’t matter how often you write or post. Don’t put pressure on yourself to write every day. Don’t set a schedule, if you don’t want to. Everyone is different.
  • If you want people to read your blog, it’s important to share it. I’ve gotten so much feedback just by sharing my blog posts to my personal Facebook page. It makes a huge difference!

My 15 Nominees:

  1. Virginia Ashley Photography
  2. Earth Pilgrim
  3. Ordinary Adventures
  4. David Snape and Friends
  5. Nerdy Book Club
  6. Just Wunderlust
  7. Sincerely Reine
  8. Toulouse and Tonic
  9. Becky Due – Author
  10. The Melodramatic Confessions of Carla Louise
  11. Simply Marquessa
  12. The Daily Kickstand
  13. Brilliance Within
  14. Freckled Italian
  15. BeautyBeyondBones

All of these nominees are amazing in their own way. Two of these writers are women that I know personally – Virginia Ashley and Freckled Italian. The rest are those who have followed my blog, liked a post, or commented on a post. Thank you to all of you for your support in my blogging journey!

And, thanks again to gettingthroughanxiety for the nomination!


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Blog Awards #1: The Liebster Award

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Yesterday, I had the great honor to be nominated for The Liebster Award by the amazing Kristian Weigman, the author of Life Lessons Around The Dinner Table!

Thank you so much for the nomination, Kristian – I was so shocked when you commented on my most recent post! I’m honored!


The Liebster Award is unique – It’s given by bloggers to bloggers. It’s a great way to get to know the blogging community!

Here are the rules:

  • Recognize 5 other new bloggers.
  • Give the answers to 11 questions from the blogger who nominated you.
  • Tell readers 11 random facts about you.
  • Ask 11 more questions to the new bloggers.
  • Link this post back to the blogger who nominated you.

My questions from Kristian were:

Question #1: What was one of your most defining moments in life?

A: One of the most defining moments in my life was when I went on my first date with my now-husband, Al. It was my first true “first date” – All the other boys I dated, I’d met through my church, and all those relationships started something like, “Hey, we’ve known each other for a while, let’s give this dating thing a try?”

Al was the first guy who was someone I didn’t know very well. His brother had set us up, and after two weeks of texting and phone calls as I started my senior year of college, we decided to go to Virginia Beach for dinner and see Chicago perform on the boardwalk. I remember every single detail of that September Saturday. I remember thinking, “Wow – This is what dating is supposed to be.”

We’ve been together ever since. We wrote love letters to each other as part of our wedding vows, and without knowing it, we both wrote about that first date. Funny how that works. We will celebrate six years together on September 4th!

Question #2: How do you spend your free time?

A: I spend my free time with Al, my family, and my friends, as much as possible. When I don’t feel like being social, you’ll find me curled up on the couch with a book, or busy writing the next blog post or a new story. If I’m not reading or writing, I love to play softball, travel, take photos, cook, and enjoy my American Girl dolls.

Question #3: What are your top 3 favorite books, and why?

A: My favorite book is The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald. Although I had to read it in high school, I fell in love with the story and I got caught up in the characters and their world. It’s one book that I re-read multiple times every year.

My second favorite book is To Kill A Mockingbird, by Harper Lee. This was another assigned book in high school, but it’s one that I’ve re-read almost every single year. It’s taught me several life lessons over the years, and Lee’s talent as a writer is paramount.

My third favorite book  is The Happiness Project, by Gretchen Rubin. It’s a delightful memoir that chronicles a year of her life, with the single goal of becoming happier and finding more joy. It gave me a lot of perspective about my own life, such as really not taking anything for granted, and enjoying the little moments in life.

Question #4: What is your idea of a perfect day?

A: My idea of a perfect day is coffee in the morning, snuggling / cuddling with Al, reading at least part of a good book, taking a walk or a bike ride, listening to amazing music, taking a nap in a hammock, watching either the sunrise or the sunset, and just enjoying every minute of the day.

Question #5: What is the best compliment you have ever received?

A: This one was tough!

” … Also, thank you for using your voice, it has been my experience that being brave with ones voice, more times than not, inspires others to be brave with their own. Our collective voices create countless ripple effects and that, in my humble opinion, is where the magic is …”

This is an excerpt of a comment from Elin Stebbins Waldal, an author of a powerful memoir called Tornado Warning. I read her book twice, and then wrote a review on it.

She was so gracious – She not only read my review, but took the time to comment on it. Her words have stuck with me ever since.

Question #6: What do you enjoy most about blogging?

A: I love that I can write about anything that I want, and there are people in this world who actually read my writing! I’m so happy that people want to read what I write. I’ve always wanted to write, and to see that people appreciate my writing through my blog, it gives me incredible joy and satisfaction. So, thank you for reading!

Question #7: If you could have personally witnessed anything, what would you want to have seen?

A: Ohhhhh, wow. What a question!

I would love to have witnessed Martin Luther King’s “I Have A Dream” speech. I can only imagine what it was like on August 28, 1963 at the Lincoln Memorial. He was such a powerful speaker and advocate for peace. That would have been so special.

Question #8: What is the strangest thing you have ever eaten?

A: I tried pickled pig’s feet once, as part of a contest at church camp. It was super salty! I think I downed a massive glass of ice water immediately afterward.

Question #9: What instantly cheers you up?

A: Kermit The Frog! He’s my favorite Muppet. If I’m down, I’m known to find my stuffed Kermit and hold him for a while, or watch a few minutes of him on YouTube. Muppet Treasure Island is one of my favorite movies!

Question #10: If you could ask any person in the world, alive or dead for advice, who would it be, and what would you ask?

A: I would ask Princess Diana for advice. May God rest her soul, she was taken too soon.

I would ask her how she would deal with our world today, in the face of so much grief, terrorism, despair, war, and racism. Would she face our circumstances with as much compassion and care as she did the lepers, and AIDS patients, and the homeless?

Question #11: What is your favorite word or phrase?

A: “What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.”


11 Random Facts About Me

  1. I have hazel eyes.
  2. I’ve never gotten a speeding ticket.
  3. I’m exclusively left-handed.
  4. I hate the feeling of my head hair when it falls on my skin. It drives me nuts – I zero in on it and I have to find it and remove it immediately.
  5. I’m a die-hard Green Bay Packers fan.
  6. I’ve never traveled on an Amtrak train, not yet!
  7. I was kissed on the cheek by a sea lion at the San Diego Zoo.
  8. I’ve worn glasses since sixth grade.
  9. In college, I wrote my senior thesis on the Nicholas Sparks romance novels.
  10. I do not like being called just “Laura.” I appreciate “Laura Beth” or “LB” much more.
  11. I had braces twice!

Here are my 5 nominations:


And, my 11 questions for the new bloggers:

  1. Who is your favorite hero or heroine?
  2. What is your favorite drink?
  3. What was your favorite subject in school?
  4. If you could travel to any one place, where would you go, and why?
  5. Do you have a favorite color?
  6. What time period would you like to live in, and why?
  7. What is your favorite or most cherished memory from your childhood?
  8. Aside from blogging, how else do you express yourself?
  9. If you could pick three people, alive or dead, to share a meal with, who would you pick, and why?
  10. What is your favorite movie, and why?
  11. What inspires you?

Thanks again, Kristian! I really enjoyed this!


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂